What specific behaviors make a person more magnetic to other people?

 

What specific behaviors make a person more magnetic to other people?

Here’s what I think makes people more magnetic to other people:

• A strong presence. What I mean by that is people who are alive; not like breathing kind of alive but people who are buzzing life throughout their body. You can usually see this by the way they act. They do things confidently, actively, but smoothly and gently at the same time.

• A strong voice. When people have a voice that is projecting. They’re not loud, but not quiet; they’re able to get what they want out of their mouth and make people understand what they mean.

• Warmth and kindness. People who attract people generally tend to be people who are nice and kind. They smile at almost everyone, and offer help when they think it’s needed. Kindness, I think, usually tends to attract people because, well, nowadays, it’s hard to find a genuinely friendly face.

• Confidence. While people like warm and kind people, people who attract others also tend to be confident. They’re nice, but if you’re taking advantage of them, they won’t resist from standing up for themselves. Humans like people who are confident because they want to be confident as well, and confidence is a sign that you know what you’re doing, and we like to rely on people who we know we can trust. (I know this kind connects to the first one, but it’s a bit different.)

• Wisdom. For some reason, I feel like this kind of ties into confidence. People who attract others are also really wise. Like mentioned above, people like someone who knows what they’re talking about, and know what is important and what’s not.

Me stating that these are the qualities that make people attracted doesn’t mean that these are the only traits that make it happen. Many times, it depends on people, and what kind of people they like and appreciate.

I’m also not trying to be biased or trying to describe the person as exactly the kind of human they have to be and exactly the kind of traits they should have.

Mainly, I feel like what attracts people is when you have self worth. People like to know others who know what they’re worth, and know that they’re not lesser than anyone else. Others appreciate that and respect people who have self confidence.